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My Sister, My Hero

I'd like to tell you about my sister Rebecca Jane Nicholls and more importantly why I owe her my life.

Rebecca was born on 30th June 1987, a third daughter for my parents, Wendy and Malcolm and a younger sister for Hannah and myself. Not knowing that Rebecca would be born with Downs was a massive shock for my family but it was also the fact that we didn't know anything about Down's syndrome that was daunting. It must have been a very worrying but happy time for my parents.

Last year on an ordinary afternoon, Rebecca and myself were getting ready to go shopping. I was in the middle of straightening her hair when I suddenly had an Epileptic seizure. I hit my head in the fall and knocked myself unconscious. I have been an Epileptic for about 7 years now and up until that moment Rebecca has only seen me have a mild one and there have always been people around. I have spoken to her in the past about the procedure in which you need to carry out after I've had a seizure, for example putting me in the recovery position. Little did I know that she had remembered it all, and more.

jenny_and_rebecca_nichollsI woke up on her bed a few minutes later in the recovery position with a blanket over me. She told me that as soon as I stopped shaking she had picked me up, (me being 10 stone) and had lifted me onto her bed. She had checked that I was still breathing, called my mum at work and alerted the neighbours who had called an ambulance. I hate to think what the situation might have turned out like if Rebecca hadn't been there, and for that I can't ever thank her enough.

Rebecca is now 22 and has just completed her Life Skills course at a mainstream college and is now working at the supermarket Morrisons. Since working there we have noticed a change in her, she is more confident and out spoken and and it's great to see her blossom.

I'm so grateful to her for helping me. I'd like to think I'd know what to do in that type of situation as it can be very scary but that didn't seem to affect her at the time. Not only is she my little sister but she is quite simply my hero.

By Jenny Nicholls

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My poem

I have been writing poetry for a number of years on different topics and have had a number of poems published, and recently I thought it would be good to turn my talent to writing poetry to inspire and motivate people.

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Why we did Capital to Coast

Early in 2004, my husband, Adam & I (Lisa) were already proud parents of 3 sons: Twins Lucas & Jordan (12 years old) and Mason (8 years old) but we had a little surprise due to us - I was pregnant for a third time and we were both thrilled!  We had obviously hoped to complete our family with a girl and were absolutely over the moon when the sexing scan had showed that, indeed, we were expecting just that - our first daughter!  Because I was 37 years of age, I had been given the serum blood test which was to establish any risk of Down's syndrome, Spina Bifida or the like, the results of which were over  250/1 chance of being affected and an amniocentisis was ruled out immediately, because the 'risk was so low'.  The pregnancy went really well and knowing our baby was a girl, we had no trouble in deciding on a name - Madison (after a beautiful little girl I had taught previously), Pamela (after my late mother) and Paige (a name we both loved).  A caesarian birth was booked for 22nd October (the day after daddy's birthday!
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Living with Max - Toilet Talk

Max indulges in toilet talk. This has proved very useful, if a little wounding at times. It allows us to get a small, honest glimpse of his world. He finds it a big challenge to articulate his concerns and worries in life. So overhearing his inner most secrets is like a mainline artery to his thoughts. Why he is able to chat away for hours in the privacy and comfort of the toilet, his thoughts tumbling forth like a stream, yet when faced with a concerned parent he clams shut, I have yet to fathom.

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She is 'My World'!

We were told there was a chance that Cath and I could have a baby with Down's syndrome due to the problems she was having with her pregnancy. This was initially quite worrying but soon passed as the clock ticked down towards the birth date. We never even considered the amnio, just like not knowing the sex of our child as this we felt was like flying in the face of god.

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