Many parents claim DLA for their child at some time during her/his first year. Then they are upset and confused when they get a refusal from the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP), saying "your child doesn't have any more needs than any other child of the same age." This can feel like a very personal and insulting attack, as they have just been told that their child has a lifelong disability.
Why does this happen?
The rules for DLA are not "common sense" or logical. They are defined in legislation, where words and phrases have a very specific meaning. So, for example, the phrase "your child does not have any more needs than any other child of the same age" actually refers to a complicated definition of whether your child's needs are "substantially greater" than those of most other children of the same age. Parents know that their child has greater needs, but the DWP is trying to fit individual children into their system of definitions. And often they behave as if their definitions are "reality"!
The DWP need a lot of information to make a proper decision on DLA. Unfortunately, the claim form is not actually very clear about the level of detail that they need. This means that decisions are made wrongly based on insufficient information.
Decision makers do not have a good enough understanding of people with learning disabilities. They do not really grasp the information they are given about an individual child. The DWP are aware of this problem, and have just developed a new training course on learning disabilities for their staff.
Making a DLA decision for a child involves comparing that child with other children of the same age. Decision makers are not medically trained, and often they are confused about or simply ignorant of "normal" child development.
It is possible that you have claimed before your child's needs are "substantially greater" than those of most other children of the same age. However, in our experience, it is more common for children to be wrongly refused.
If you've been refused DLA for your child, there are steps you can take. See Guidelines for claiming DLA or contact the Benefits advisers at the DSA.